A Letter to Myself
- bandcoedits
- May 8
- 3 min read
Updated: 3 days ago
Dear Me,
I want to take a moment to honour the person I’ve become and the journey that has shaped me. Life changed drastically in 2021, and while the shift may have brought challenges, uncertainty, and growing pains, it also opened a new doorway — a threshold into becoming more deeply aligned with who I truly am.
Since then, I’ve learned to listen. To really listen — not just to the noise around me, but to the soft, steady voice inside. The one that nudges gently when something isn’t right, and glows quietly when I’m on the right path. That inner guidance has become my compass, and I’m proud of how far I’ve come by trusting it.
I’ve embraced the truth that this life is a singular, beautiful opportunity — and I’ve become more intentional in how I live it. I now walk forward with more clarity and courage, not because everything is easy or perfect, but because I know my purpose deserves to be honoured. My dreams are valid. My voice matters. My presence in the world is meaningful.
Professionally, I have devoted seventeen years of my life to the English as a Second Language (ESL) field — a space where I’ve helped others find their voice in a new language, opened doors to opportunity, and fostered connection across cultures. That’s no small thing. It speaks to my resilience, dedication, and ability to hold space for others, even when I’m navigating my own storms. I honour that legacy. And yet, I also know I’m being called into something new — something more aligned with this current version of me.
That’s why I’m choosing to grow my freelance proofreading business. Not just as a side gig, but as a reflection of my gifts, my attention to detail, my love of language, and my desire to create something that’s mine — rooted in my values, flexible for my life, and expansive in its potential. I know this business can thrive, not because I have all the answers, but because I have heart, grit, and experience. I can build this, one step at a time.
I also hold close the vision of living in abroad. It won't just be a place on the map — but a dream that will represent freedom, family, nature, and a new rhythm of life. I give myself permission to believe in that dream, to nurture it, to prepare for it, and to trust that when the time is right, it will become real. Until then, I’m learning to bloom right where I am.
So today, I’m writing this letter not to fix or change anything, but simply to celebrate. To acknowledge the strength it takes to start over, the wisdom to listen inward, the courage to dream, and the love that fuels every action. I see myself clearly now — not just as who I was, but as who I am becoming.
There will be days when I feel unsure, when the vision feels distant or the tasks feel too big. On those days, I’ll come back to this letter. I’ll remember how far I’ve come. I’ll give myself grace. I’ll trust the process. I’ll continue to listen to that quiet voice inside — because it has never led me astray.
In the next chapter — I get to write with intention, courage, and compassion.
With love and belief,
Me
Food for Thought:
Have you had a life-changing event that shifted your perspective on how you think about life?
Also, have you ever written a letter to yourself? What was that experience like for you?
I would love to hear!
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